What to do when you are 2 different people in a relationship?
Question by Don N: What to do when you are 2 different people in a relationship?
I have dated my girlfreind for 4 years now. We are getting to that point in the relationship that we are arguing more, and getting frustrated and snappy with each other. We do not have many things in common. Music is a big part in my life and i reflect my emotions(good or bad ) through it, as well as movies. I love sports, Competition, practicing to make perfect. I am ambitous and a thinker and doer. she likes music but does not feel the music the way I do. Has no athletic ability, no hobbies, and it takes several times for her to pick things up, attempts, to get the hang of anything. Here is where the guilt comes in. I would have broken up with her a year into the realtionship, as I realized that i was just too much for her, meaning my personality and my way of doing and learning things was too much. I did not know I had Herpies. I gave it to her. She was a virgin. I still feel so guilty to this day. I swore to stand by her, thinking that no one wants damaged goods.What now?
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Answer by chaskfrazier
Split. Life’s waaay to short to have to endure that. It only gets worse from here, trust me. I feel sorry that she contracted herpies from you. Like you said, it wasn’t on purpose…(I hope), so you can’t be blamed for that. You both should be using protection and this teaches you an unfortunate lesson way to late. But don’t let your past rule your future.
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