Q&A: Hates Making Decisions??? ?

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Question by ANNOYED: Hates Making Decisions??? ?
Okay, I recently started dating this guy that I work with (we are co-workers and it’s recommended that co-workers don’t date) anyway, we kissed and I asked him if he wanted to start dating and he got really nervous and couldn’t decide.
I then asked him if he liked me and to forget about everything else, because taking a risk is better then doing nothing he said he did, and we decided to start dating.
But the problem is he just got out of a two year relationship and I was talking to his girlfriend (when I told him about this he got really mad) anyway she said that he can not make decisions and that is why they split, she said he even has trouble choosing a movie and relies on others.

I think are relationship may be a bad idea, but even if it is I want to help him become more independent, his ex also said this was his fathers fault for criticizing every decision he made as a child.

How can I help him to become more independent?
everyone has feelings, so lately I have been trying to get him to talk about feelings then making a decision based on that rather then facts.

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