i can’t use a guy to forget another …. !!?

Question by MuSiC MaaaD: i can’t use a guy to forget another …. !!?
well , to cut a long story short , things were goin’ fast between us , we went only on 3 dates .. two of them were to the movies and the other one was with our friends , i luved him alot and i guess he did too , we met online but actually we’re in the same neighboorhood and have friends in common , after four months includes only 3 dates and phone calls and warm and pure luv , suddenly he just stopped callin’ and started avoidin’ me , the sweet guy i’v known transported to a monester who luvs to see me in hurt , he dated like 3 girls after me without even breakin’ up with me …. after all of this , i think i met someone else online who actually was my ex’s friend so i thought that my ex has made his friend to know me online and act like my best friend til one day me and my ex’s friend were talkin’ online and suddenly he said these exact words ( i deleted ur num and ur other mail 😀 ) i was just in shock , i thought my ex thinks i’m a bi*ch so i was in hurt til one day my ex saw me by concidence and came to say hi so i just turned around and insulted him infront of his two friends and blocked his mail and deleted his num. and cut all the communication ways we used to have …… 9 months ago i actually missed my ex , i couldn’t help it so i added him again and we both apologized .. it was a big miss understandin.. an actually he wanted us to get back together and i sure accepted , i can’t deny he knows how to effect me and my feelings .. 1 month after gettin’ back together i saw him by concidence at the mall holdin’ hands with one of the girls he dated but he didn’t know that i saw him …… and i decided that i have to cut our communication again and i did …. it all happened like a month ago when i didn’t log into my mail and didn’t go to that mall .. but tonight .. i saw him online and i thought that if i signed it he would notice that i wasn’t there for one month … but guess what !! he didn’t and since then i’m in non stop cryin’ mood =*[

Things Would Help You To Answer
1-in hi5 he made himself a profile named kelsey ( him ) to make that kelsey send him comments like ( i love u , i miss u )

2-he has a pic of me ( would that help him to notice i’m not there !! )

3-he has a present from me ( and i think he didn’t threw it away )

P.S ppl it’s not about mr.right .. i’m stuck in my past and u’ll excuse me when u know he’s my first luv .. i know that someone out there must be lovin’ me and willin’ for his chance but i can’t use a guy to forget another .. so please don’t mention that .. i’m lookin’ for a solution to my 3 years problem

Best answer:

Answer by I say this and that
you need to take a step back form this online dating scene

you asked a question and then gave excuses

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