My coward husband ask for a divorce over the phone.?
Question by blk_female_x: My coward husband ask for a divorce over the phone.?
I never thought my husband would leave me i thought we had the perfect marriage at first, i saw some odd behavior in my husband but ignored it cause i did not wont to think the bad on him, we been married 9 years almost 10 and after the first 3 years my husband started acting weird, he started by telling me how ugly the women private body parts looked, which i ignored should have caught on then, after about 4 years into the marriage my husband stopped having sex with me completely, i tried to deal with it because i loved him so much. i thought he had some sort of sexual dysfunction going on, due to the fact he could not perform, but still continued to ignore the signs, after about 6 years into the marriage he started inter acting with lots of male friends and colleagues he would talk for hours with male colleagues in the phone, he started ignoring me, and not spending time and he would set up late watching movies in the other bedroom and wait till i fall asleep before coming in, to bed, after the7th year he started telling me he was not feeling normal and he felt unstable in his mind, he started changing his hair color, frosting the tips of his hair, shaving all the hair off his body, dressing different, at first look like ths classic signs of cheating with another women, but i was wrong, so in the 8th year all he would so is argue with me he told me to keep my butt and boobs covered cause he did not wont to see that so i did that was also odd, he so in the last year of my marriage we had planned to move to anther state where it was cheaper and we could buy a home he tricked me i went on ahead to the new place getting settled in while he took care of things at our old place, but when he never came and i called him but know reply after 2 days he called me and he talked so dry i ask him what was wrong he said i dont wont u no more, i cant stand the sight of u i want a divorce all this came out the blue from no where i was shocked he told me he was going to stay there and he had found a male roomate and i should move on with my life that was the most painful thing in my life, i have not worked in 8 are 9 years and he knows this after all this pain he put me through he threaten me saying if i dont give divorce he wont give me anything support at all i have no money for lawyer but he does i need help do anyone know if i have any rights? i was told by few friends i can hire my own lawyer and make him pay please some one help me this man has ruined my life i am now trying to fine a job asap. basically speaking my husband left me for a man cause he is gay. and he never came right out and said it but his actions told me he was.
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Answer by Geeky McNerdy-Pants
What’s wrong with divorcing him? It’s not like you’ll ever be happy with him again, especially if he’s gay. True, he shouldn’t have mislead you like that, but what’s done is done. Live and let live.
It didn’t “come out of the blue,” he’s been acting strange for YEARS. Get a job, respect his wishes and give him a divorce, and move on.
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